Life does that to some people. I’m thinking of my friend Oddzy, who is probably known to a couple of you. I was in her city several years ago and had dinner with her and her MOM. Her mom is a bit daft but definitely more fun than she is these days…but in her youth she was a very spirited young filly.
I think it’s possible to reverse this, but only if you want to and are willing to work hard for it and get a support network.